The reasons why people get into debt are not always simple
There are myriad reasons for why people get into debt:
Many people get into debt due to
circumstances beyond their control. Changes in life circumstances happen -
people lose their jobs, or the overtime they were relying upon.
People also suffer bereavements or their relationships fall apart making it impossible for them
to meet their committments. One of the leading causes stated for bankruptcies is an inability
to pay high medical bills. Even the easy and most obvious answer - because people simply spend more
money than they earn, may not be as simple as it seems.
According to Iowa State University professor Dr. Tahira K. Hira, debt isn't just an indication of
how much a person spends, but it may also be an indication of their
emotional state. Hira did research through the Canadian consumer bankruptcy office in the 1990's
and found that most people who filed for bankruptcy had very low self esteem, and had experienced
one or both parents were absent either physically or emotionally. In contrast, in other research
she found that students who were most comfortable dealing with money had had a pleasant
growing up experience, had come from an intact family and had had a positive money experience
at a young age, often with a parent helping them to open a bank account and plan for a goal.
Other emotional reasons may also compel people to spend more than they can afford, including
stress and impulsiveness. Hira also states that many consumers who use credit cards have no
idea of what things cost. She suggests that people go for at least one week paying for everything with
cash - and she guarantees that people will find it much harder to spend when they have to part
with cold hard cash.
However, Hira also notes that the traditional way of dealing with debt - negotiating with
creditors and working out a debt repayment schedule - will not help change negative
behavior patterns.
If you need to talk to someone about your debt, other than a close friend or family member, then try one of these resources. Consumer Credit Counseling Services offer inexpensive, confidential assistance for people who
are having trouble managing or paying their bills. To find the office nearest you, call
800-388-2227; or visit www.nfcc.org.
www.nfcc.org.
Financial Recovery Institute: Provides referrals to Financial RecoverySM Counselors.
Financial Recovery Counseling is a structured process that helps clients transform their
relationship with money. A relatively new field, it seeks to treat the "whole person,"
including addressing the client's history with, and emotions relating to, money. Call 1-877-913-9677.
Visit www.financialrecovery.com
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